Dear Friend,
You must be wondering why I’ve been silent the past few months. There are no very good reasons, except that I’ve allowed work and other activities to crowd my schedule. I hope I’ve kept you excited to hear from me.
HOMECOMINGS
Homecoming is the dominant theme of my life the past few months. No, I am not yet coming home to my Creator God and I hope and pray I will not do so sooner. I turned 56 only last September and I think my mission in life is not yet fully accomplished. I still feel strong and healthy. I have no medical concern except my high cholesterol. There are still many things I want to do. But of course I do not forget that my life is in God? hand. He can choose to take me anytime He wants. May I be ready to come home to Him anytime.
High School Alumni Homecoming
After 40 years, I came home to my high school alma mater, Pampanga High School. Together with 23 of my IV-I classmates (7 are balikbayans), we attended the Centennial Grand Alumni Homecoming last February 12. Wearing golden T-shirts with Batch 68 written on it, we proudly joined thousands of alumni from the past 10 decades. William, now a well-accomplished doctor, treated us with overflowing food and drinks at his farm. As expected, we reminisced, talked, ate, and laughed endlessly. I am awed by the closeness and affection I sensed among us, even if some of us have not seen each other for 40 years! It is a joy to see how we have grown in wisdom and character and have succeeded in our respective careers and family life. It is amusing to see how we have changed physically.
Our class published a book, From Our Hearts To Yours: Letters to a Young Student. Sixteen of us wrote letters to the graduating class, sharing our experiences and wisdom gained beyond high school. The book will be given to all the graduating students of Pampanga High School come April. Our class reunion culminated with a 3-day trip to Bohol. I am so happy I decided to join them even if it meant a big slash from my budget. It was worth it!
Dear Heart, Come Home
This is the title of a book by Joyce Rupp which I used as a resource material in facilitating a 3-day Spiritual Retreat for 12 ladies in their midlife. I was the oldest in the group and the only unmarried. At first I was a bit anxious because the group was new to me. Except for one, it was my first time to meet them all. But thank God the group welcomed me warmly. I felt very comfortable with them. I enjoyed their stories, learning a lot from their midlife journey with all its challenges, struggles, grief, joys and triumphs. Joyce Rupp describes the midlife journey as coming home to one? true self. In this retreat, I felt I was well on my way to coming home to my true self as I have come to terms with many realities of my midlife journey as a single person. I don? feel ashamed of my grey hair anymore. I have accepted the fact that I can no longer have my own child. I am more comfortable with my “rounder” body. I am getting used to being addressed Nanay and Mrs. by strangers, Tita by some colleagues, and “Mommy” by my students. Thankfully, no one has yet asked for my senior citizen card! I have embraced gladly the gift of singleness. May I continue to live fully and joyfully as I approach the evening of my life.
Please pray with and for me.
* Thank God for giving me wisdom, strength, and protection in my regional visits and training of staff and volunteers in the Visayas last November and December 2007.
* Praise God for a fruitful and refreshing Staff Conference in early January 2008. Thank Him for providing for our needs.
* Thank God for the committed and hardworking leaders of SVCF (UP Diliman chapter). All of the executive committee members are graduating. Thank the Lord for sustaining them during these hectic months. Please pray for the right persons to take their place.
* Thank God for keeping safe and healthy Mamang, Reachie and Elaine (my two nieces) and Maritess and Aimee (our ?asambahay? in Pampanga . Please pray that Aimee will decide to stay longer with us.
* Pray for me as I prepare for the following: New Staff Training on March 5-8; Staff Prayer Retreat on March 18-19; Sessions on Kingdom of God in Kawayan Camp on the second week of April, Sessions on Personhood and Inner Healing in the ISCF Camp on April 23; a 3-day Spiritual Retreat for singles on April 24-26 and a one-week training on Dialogical Approach to Adult Learning in mid May.
* Pray for discernment on staff recruitment and deployment for school year 2008-2009. Pray for us in the IVCF staff team as we work with our new National Director.
I truly appreciate your friendship and partnership. I pray that you may enjoy good health, and all may go well with you, even as your soul is getting along well.?3John 1:2
In His grace,
Elsie
